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A simple girl is a ‘homely’ girl who spends all her day at home and is comfortable with house chores.
I fail to understand the ‘ plus size bridal plus size bridalsimple girl’ formula. Equally baffling is the notion of ‘the girl next door’ bridal dresses online bridal dresses online.
I am a 25-year old professional, single, and equipped with considerable social etiquette but I do not fall in any of the two categories.
Am I not shareef enough then, to be a desirable partner for an educated urban male who has a stable reputation in the society?
I am afraid I am not.
I am anything but ‘simple’ so given the value association that comes with being an” Oh-so-simple-and-hence-so-good-girl” should I consider myself bad?
Good girls and bad girls
By what standards do we define the good and bad in a woman today? Or, let me rephrase that: by what standards do we perceive a single woman to be simple and thus innocent, or deviant and thus otherwise? How standard are the conditions that come attached with our definition of simplicity and how exactly do we shape our judgment based on these perceptions?
The strength of a human character cannot be limited to a scientific formula neither does it come with any strings attached, like an IMF loan. And this is why I find it hard to distinguish between being simple and being good.
Does simple equal good?
When it comes to women, why do we attach goodness with simplicity? Simplicity is one of many personality traits and goodness is another. Why do we perceive both as associated with each other? This ‘simplicity syndrome’ is common. One could be any of the following: wild and crazy, unconventional and different, cheap homecoming dresses under 50 cheap homecoming dresses under 50 articulate and mature, an embodiment of elegance and grace, anything but ‘good’ enough to be a ‘good’ man’ cheap bridesmaids dresses cheap bridesmaids dresses dresses.com ;s wife.
But who defines the good here?
Fit for marriage
And when it comes to sorting out a ‘simple’ girl for marriage the above traits are justified with the following expectations: bridesmaid dresses under 50
A simple girl is domestic. She spends her day at home and is comfortable with household chores. She is less inclined to interfere in her in-laws’ or for that matter her husband’s personal and social affairs and can resolve matters with a simple swish of her magical wand of silence and patience. She knows how to dress dress modestly, speak softly, act soberly and attend guests cheerfully. She is a sweet wife, an adorable daughter-in law, a pious Muslim who offers all her prayers and gives charity and more importantly a perfect and devoted mother to her children – in short, a complete package for a blessed marital life ahead.
Bleak future
On the other hand, she is the same woman who after years of toil for raising her children and working on her marital harmony, reaches a point in life where her social life has thinned out considerably, with no friends to seek company from and not many places to hang out at.
While her kids start exploring the new environs, Summer Wedding Dresses may not be pure white and are often the preferred choice for second time brides she becomes just another ordinary plain and desolate woman back home for her husband who has all the reasons now to complain by comparing her to other “charming, intelligent and equally witty” sexy bridal dresses female companions that he meets and enjoys the company of. Where is the goodness factor now?
My simple question is: why do we breed such double-standards when it comes to our interaction with the opposite gender? While men in general enjoy the company of independent women who they often praise for their intelligence, maturity and level-headedness and most often sought mutual and trusted friendships with, the same women become a no-go area when it comes to considering marriage.
Worse still, how does one define men who take it as their moral duty to ‘straighten’ such girls and never let go a chance to tell them how emotionally foolish they are or how sentimentally and morally weak and corrupt they have been in the first place to bring about that ‘moral corruptness.’ bridal gowns for sale ;
Does our society only accept women who are meek, have low self-esteem, have no say in their public and private lives and are submissive to the men in their lives? Is it that any confident, financially independent and intelligent woman is too good to be true?
Again, can anyone please define ‘good’ here for me?
The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of The Express Tribune.
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A simple girl is a ‘homely’ girl who spends all her day at home and is comfortable with house chores.
I fail to understand the ‘ plus size bridal plus size bridalsimple girl’ formula. Equally baffling is the notion of ‘the girl next door’ bridal dresses online bridal dresses online.
I am a 25-year old professional, single, and equipped with considerable social etiquette but I do not fall in any of the two categories.
Am I not shareef enough then, to be a desirable partner for an educated urban male who has a stable reputation in the society?
I am afraid I am not.
I am anything but ‘simple’ so given the value association that comes with being an” Oh-so-simple-and-hence-so-good-girl” should I consider myself bad?
Good girls and bad girls
By what standards do we define the good and bad in a woman today? Or, let me rephrase that: by what standards do we perceive a single woman to be simple and thus innocent, or deviant and thus otherwise? How standard are the conditions that come attached with our definition of simplicity and how exactly do we shape our judgment based on these perceptions?
The strength of a human character cannot be limited to a scientific formula neither does it come with any strings attached, like an IMF loan. And this is why I find it hard to distinguish between being simple and being good.
Does simple equal good?
When it comes to women, why do we attach goodness with simplicity? Simplicity is one of many personality traits and goodness is another. Why do we perceive both as associated with each other? This ‘simplicity syndrome’ is common. One could be any of the following: wild and crazy, unconventional and different, cheap homecoming dresses under 50 cheap homecoming dresses under 50 articulate and mature, an embodiment of elegance and grace, anything but ‘good’ enough to be a ‘good’ man’ cheap bridesmaids dresses cheap bridesmaids dresses dresses.com ;s wife.
But who defines the good here?
Fit for marriage
And when it comes to sorting out a ‘simple’ girl for marriage the above traits are justified with the following expectations: bridesmaid dresses under 50
A simple girl is domestic. She spends her day at home and is comfortable with household chores. She is less inclined to interfere in her in-laws’ or for that matter her husband’s personal and social affairs and can resolve matters with a simple swish of her magical wand of silence and patience. She knows how to dress dress modestly, speak softly, act soberly and attend guests cheerfully. She is a sweet wife, an adorable daughter-in law, a pious Muslim who offers all her prayers and gives charity and more importantly a perfect and devoted mother to her children – in short, a complete package for a blessed marital life ahead.
Bleak future
On the other hand, she is the same woman who after years of toil for raising her children and working on her marital harmony, reaches a point in life where her social life has thinned out considerably, with no friends to seek company from and not many places to hang out at.
While her kids start exploring the new environs, Summer Wedding Dresses may not be pure white and are often the preferred choice for second time brides she becomes just another ordinary plain and desolate woman back home for her husband who has all the reasons now to complain by comparing her to other “charming, intelligent and equally witty” sexy bridal dresses female companions that he meets and enjoys the company of. Where is the goodness factor now?
My simple question is: why do we breed such double-standards when it comes to our interaction with the opposite gender? While men in general enjoy the company of independent women who they often praise for their intelligence, maturity and level-headedness and most often sought mutual and trusted friendships with, the same women become a no-go area when it comes to considering marriage.
Worse still, how does one define men who take it as their moral duty to ‘straighten’ such girls and never let go a chance to tell them how emotionally foolish they are or how sentimentally and morally weak and corrupt they have been in the first place to bring about that ‘moral corruptness.’ bridal gowns for sale ;
Does our society only accept women who are meek, have low self-esteem, have no say in their public and private lives and are submissive to the men in their lives? Is it that any confident, financially independent and intelligent woman is too good to be true?
Again, can anyone please define ‘good’ here for me?
The views expressed by the writer and the reader comments do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of The Express Tribune.